“The most precious gift we can offer others is our presence. When mindfulness embraces those we love, they will bloom like flowers.” - Thich Nhat Hanh (b. 1926)
Saturday, 24 December 2011
My Christmas Wish
Sunday, 18 December 2011
"A" Is For Attitude
There is an elegance behind Tom Callos’ Ultimate Black Belt Test that is easy to overlook. Every program requirement and challenge plays an integral role in ensuring the success of the participant. Whether the curriculum is making you more aware or helping you stay engaged, all serve a purpose.The best way to approach the curriculum requirements is to view each as a tool to assist you achieve mastery. I have found some people immediately interpret a requirement as a hoop they must jump through as opposed to the ladder it actually is. Just a small change of attitude can change the entire aspect of the challenge.
The UBBT has taught me a lot about kung fu and success, and all of that knowledge has come to me experientially. I have always known that a bunch of small things add up to a single big thing, logic dictates that. However, logical or not, that knowledge does not empower you until you put it into action and experience the rewards.
"Attitude is a little thing that makes a big difference" - Winston Churchill (1874 - 1965)
Sunday, 11 December 2011
Children Do As They See
“Why of course the people don't want war. Why should some poor slob on a farm want to risk his life in a war when the best he can get out of it is to come back to his farm in one piece? Naturally the common people don't want war neither in Russia, nor in England, nor for that matter in Germany. That is understood. But, after all, it is the leaders of the country who determine the policy and it is always a simple matter to drag the people along, whether it is a democracy, or a fascist dictatorship, or a parliament, or a communist dictatorship. Voice or no voice, the people can always be brought to the bidding of the leaders. That is easy. All you have to do is tell them they are being attacked, and denounce the peacemakers for lack of patriotism and exposing the country to danger. It works the same in any country.” - Hermann Goering (1893 - 1946)
Sunday, 4 December 2011
Empathy
Pro Infirmis conducts an experiment: there are only a few people who don`t have empathy with disabled people. Nevertheless, the passenger seat in the public bus next to Fabian often stays empty. Handicapped people are a regular part of our society.
A friend of mine sent me this video a few weeks ago. I had seen it before, perhaps in another blog, but somehow it did not speak to me that first time like it has this time. I have been unable to get the video out of my mind for the past couple of weeks.
Why do handicaps and mental illness carry such social stigma? Obviously our lack of empathy reflects our lack of understanding. This ad by Pro Infirmis should really open eyes.
“Mental illness is nothing to be ashamed of, but stigma and bias shame us all." - Bill Clinton (b. 1946)
Sunday, 27 November 2011
Education is Power
I stumbled across this video on YouTube today but I wish I had known about it two years ago when the coalition controversy was raging. It was shocking how many people were worked up over an issue that they had little understanding about. At that time fear became a major weapon in Canadian politics and its use continues today. Our collective ignorance gives fear free reign in Canada. Most of our government’s policies on crime, security, the economy, and the environment are pushed ahead by campaigns that prey upon the public’s emotions and fears rather than facts and logic.
If you want to have say, if you want to affect change, educate yourself and use the democratic system to your advantage.
“Fear always springs from ignorance.” - Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803 - 1882)
Sunday, 20 November 2011
Don't Stand Still
I’ve watched one of my students struggle after suffering a concussion a couple of months ago. A kung fu lifestyle guarantees the brain bucket is going to take abuse on a regular basis and finding a balance in your training without aggravating the injury is the biggest challenge. No one wants to rest and atrophy while healing so finding alternative paths to mastery is important when recovering from any injury or setback.
Some of my greatest accomplishments have come about as a direct result of a major injury. Whenever I suffer a setback I use it as an opportunity to narrow my focus and concentrate on aspects of my training that do not aggravate my injury. The trick is to stay mindful of the healing process and push around the injury.
“A discovery is said to be an accident meeting a prepared mind.” - Albert Szent-Gyorgyi (1893 - 1986)
Sunday, 13 November 2011
The Rich Get Richer
To hear someone say that while they support the movement, they feel it has gone on long enough and the tent cities should be dismantled, shows that some people do not fully understand what the protest is about. The troubled economy is the direct result of unethical and totally illogical banking and investment practices that got us into this mess but yet some of these practices continue to this day, despite the huge publicly funded bailout, in the name of free enterprise. How is anything going to change if we do not have the gumption or stamina to stand up for what is right and just?
In the meantime, the government that Canada has so recently given a majority mandate has already reneged on many of its election promises. Our Minister of Defence took a military search and rescue helicopter out of service to pick him up from his vacation at $32,000/hour while at the same time his government forced Air Canada and Canada Post workers back to work with legislation that undermined their bargaining power and justified it in the name of the troubled economy.
We need our politicians to be accountable for the promises they make and if they are going to fly the free enterprise flag, that flag must wave equally for the rich and the poor.
“Advocates of capitalism are very apt to appeal to the sacred principles of liberty, which are embodied in one maxim: The fortunate must not be restrained in the exercise of tyranny over the unfortunate” - Bertrand Russell (1872 - 1970)
Monday, 7 November 2011
Pandamonium
What we do in the kwoon with our students builds the foundation of discipline and respect that empowers our students. The training gives them the power of self esteem and self confidence to resist peer pressure and discourage bullies. As with any power, it comes with responsibility. What we do outside the kwoon helps determine how our students’ empowerment is channelled. Participation in our community projects teach children empathy for others. Seeing the world through another’s eyes ensures power is handled responsibly and compassionately.
“Will we have to do any fundraising?” — This is one of the most common questions posed by parents during our enrollment interview process.
We don’t require our students to do any fundraising BUT I do not have a better tool at my disposal to teach a child empathy than have them look at the plight of others and recognize how they can make a difference. Asking me to give a student knowledge with humility AND confine the lessons to the training hall, makes that task almost impossible.
Once a year Silent River Kung Fu conducts a fundraising event called the Pandamonium. Our goal is to raise $100/student with all the money going to support charity. This year’s Pandamonium will see us donate money to Malawi Girls on the Move, the Children’s Ability Fund, the Homeless of Katmandu, the Second Chance Animal Rescue Society, and the Simon Poultney Foundation. By raising funds for these initiatives, we’re also raising awareness and empathy. When our students see exactly how their fundraising efforts have changed lives, they acknowledge the positive consequences of their positive actions and recognize that they really can be the change they want to see in the world.
"Only your compassion and your loving kindness are invincible, and without limit." Thich Nhat Hanh (b. 1926)
Sunday, 30 October 2011
Opportunity From Injury
Some of my greatest training breakthroughs have come about due to a major injury. My first of five knee surgeries transformed me from a kicker to a more balanced fighter. A major car accident put me on the path to study holistic healing and give me major insight into the internal harmonies. A fractured ankle and chronic shoulder swelling forced me to throttle back my weapons training and share the demonstrating responsibilities with my qualified students.
All injuries feel like setbacks when I first suffer them but when I stay optimistic and mindful, every one of them represent an opportunity.
“Adversity causes some men to break; others to break records.” - William Arthur Ward (1921 - 1994)
Sunday, 23 October 2011
Otter Therapy
A few months ago I read an article about a litter of orphaned otters at the Valley Zoo. Their mom died of cancer shortly after their birth. After seeing the pictures in that article I realized that the only thing in the world cuter than an otter is a baby otter. Those cute little guys can bring clarity to anyone’s perspective. We need more otters.
“We have just enough religion to make us hate, but not enough to let us love one another.” - Jonathan Swift (1667 - 1745)
Sunday, 16 October 2011
The Process
“How long should you try? Until.” - Jim Rohn - (1930 - 2009)
Sunday, 9 October 2011
"P" is for Passion
“I was worth over $1,000,000 when I was 23, and over $10,000,000 when I was 24, and over $100,000,000 when I was 25, and it wasn’t that important because I never did it for the money.” - Steve Jobs (1955 - 2011)
Sunday, 2 October 2011
"T" is for Tradition
The stances, the movements, the subtle nuances that go into conveying an expression — they all bring a Chinese lion to life. As an instructor I watch in fascination when I teach a student the lion dance and how their head movement and facial expressions mimic that of the lion they are controlling. Their spirit becomes entwined with the spirit of the lion. This connection between student and lion cultures a person’s empathy and eye for detail. To move like a lion, one must think like a lion. In order to translate those lion thoughts into lion action, one must have acute body awareness. This is the reason why this ancient tradition continues to hold so much reverence in the kung fu community —the strongest lion dancers become the strongest martial artists and the strongest martial artists are the best lion dancers.
The dragon dance is very new to me. Mastering the dragon dance has been a goal of mine for a long time and as of last weekend I have begun this journey. The dragon dance requires synchronization with the entire team (10 on our team) in order to give the dragon life. The dragon’s head is completely static when it comes to expression so everything must be conveyed by the movement of the body. Like the lion dancer, the dragon dancer must also connect with the spirit of the dragon they are controlling but they must take that connection a step further by extending their awareness to include the rest of the team. While my team has only been together for a total of two hours, I am awestruck at how fast their connection is developing and how that connection is translating to exponential improvement in their performance.
Chinese New Year is less than four months away and for me the preparations for the festival dominate my time and my spirit. I feel more engaged in my art at this time of year and my motivation and drive are always at their peak. Having something new to learn and master and share with so many positive people will make this year that much more special.
"Without tradition, art is a flock of sheep without a shepherd. Without innovation, it is a corpse." - Winston Churchill (1874 -1965)
Sunday, 25 September 2011
"D" is for Dragon Dance
Yesterday marked a milestone for Silent River Kung Fu when we held our first ever dragon dance practice. Our dragon has been in storage for a couple of years waiting in anticipation for Chinese New Year 2012 - The Year of the Dragon and Saturday was our first chance to dust it off and take it for a spin. We also used this practice as an opportunity to test out our new ‘Lion Cam‘ — an Oregon Scientific HD action video camera. We attached the camera to the dragon’s nose and recorded the dance practice from the dragon’s point of view. At one point of the embedded video there is a picture in picture feature where you can see both points of view simultaneously.
Thanks to SRKF’s Student UBBT Team for your efforts in our first ever practice. Despite this being the first time any of you have tried this sort of thing, you guys did great. I have no doubts that your performance come Chinese New Year will do our school proud.
“Practice is the best of all instructors” — Publilius Syrus
Sunday, 18 September 2011
Knowledge
I maintain the majority of my knowledge with a broad focus. In maintenance mode, I keep as much of my curriculum in front of me as possible. I make sure I have a strong working understanding and basic execution of the principles. My goal is to minimize any proficiency erosion.
I have only a few techniques and forms in mastery mode at any given point of time. My focus is narrowed and I devote most of my eye for detail upon mastering these few techniques. Typically, I will rotate a single form and maybe five applications through a mastery phase each year while the rest of my arsenal remains in maintenance mode.
Accrual of new knowledge comes from both outside and inside sources. When I am working on mastering technique, my main focus is on developing the six harmonies in the technique. This attention to detail will always open new insights that can be applied across the spectrum of my knowledge. I am accruing new knowledge on a daily basis by devoting myself to mastering my existing knowledge.
Accrual of knowledge from a source outside of my immediate style puts a lot of pressure upon my training structure. Learning something new and different is exciting. Since the new, exciting knowledge is the shiniest thing in my kung fu, I always want to practice it. As with everything, nothing is for free and this new focus comes at the expense of mastering and maintaining my old techniques.
For me, perspective is the key to proper balance in my training. It is easy for me to get lazy and focus on the new rather than the old if I am not taking care of my mental well being. I try to start everyday by giving thanks for the knowledge I have and reminding myself of those who trusted me enough to pass it on to me. The sense of responsibility that comes with this mindful approach is usually the only incentive I need to stay the course.
“I’m not young enough to know everything.” — Oscar Wilde (1854 - 1900)
Sunday, 11 September 2011
Peace Now
“The more you sweat in peacetime, the less you bleed in war.” - Chinese Proverb
Sunday, 4 September 2011
The Living Kwoon
We take advantage of the annual downtime this week offers us to conduct renovations and maintenance on our kwoon. This project gives everyone the opportunity to connect with and take some ownership of their training hall. It is no coincidence that the most motivated and dedicated students are also the ones that devote most of the labour toward this project each year. There is a reason why in the Chinese arts we call our training hall a kwoon (temple). A personal, spiritual connection to the kwoon is a very important aspect of kung fu training and we must stay mindful to foster and reinforce that connection. Those who I see putting a piece of themselves into the walls of their training hall tend to excel over those who approach the kwoon as if it were only a gymnasium.
When I enter our kwoon, my mind is instantly calm and clear. The walls reflect my black belt, thick with my sweat and my blood. My connection with the kwoon narrows my focus and peaks my awareness. I know exactly where I am and what I am doing.
“The man who works recognizes his own product in the World that has actually been transformed by his work: he recognizes himself in it, he sees in it his own human reality, in it he discovers and reveals to others the objective reality of his humanity, of the originally abstract and purely subjective idea he has of himself.” - Alexandre Kojève (1902 - 1968)
Sunday, 28 August 2011
Three Fingers Back At You
Technology may someday provide some answers to address our current pollution intensity but it will not provide a solution to our current consumption intensity. We've already reached the limit on many of our resources - technology cannot reverse that.
It is easy to fall into a state of blame-fuelled apathy. The bigger the target, the easier it is to slough off the blame. China, India, the USA, Walmart, McDonald's, and Exxon are all easy targets. Yet would China and India's thirst for industrialization be where it is if the West hadn't defined the standard of living that everyone has come to expect? Would Walmart, McDonald's, or Exxon even exist if we didn't provide the overwhelming demand for their products?
I am told that any plan to address global warming and other environmental issues must take the economy into account. The irony of putting our consumption-based economy's continuous growth ahead of the long term needs of the planet whose resources are required to fuel this growth should not be lost on anyone. Yet here we are and there we go.
“Let everyone sweep in front of his own door, and the whole world will be clean.” - Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (1749 - 1832)
Saturday, 20 August 2011
Linguistic Framing
I’ve been following some of the work by linguistic expert George Lakoff. Something that fascinates me is what he calls “framing”, which is the manner in which politicians position issues to fit their respective moral world views. Framing allows a political party to define themselves as a green party that supports the environment even though they are really attacking the environment in the name of the economy. You just have to frame your strategy by calling it the “Clean Air Act” and use phrases like “reducing emission intensity” while you are allowing overall pollution levels to rise to unprecedented proportions.
Linguistic framing is a strategy that works. It manipulates underprivileged people to vote for a party that exhorts “tax reform” which implies reducing taxes but in reality is really about cutting social services so that corporate taxes can be kept minimal.
Linguistic framing is not all about manipulation and deception. The more we understand the power of the language we use, the easier it is to properly communicate our ideas. Linguistic framing can help people open their minds and become more receptive to new ideas while breaking down their existing paradigms. From my perspective, linguistic framing is a definitive strategy that is going to have to be applied if we ever want the western world to make the environment and long term future of our species THE priority.
"Language shapes the way we think, and determines what we can think about." - Benjamin Lee Whorf (1897 - 1941)
Sunday, 14 August 2011
Transformation
The real value of the Ultimate Black Belt Test comes from the process one develops after a year long immersion in a self imposed life of discipline and yes, sacrifice. Nothing is ever for free so everything worth achieving will involve sacrifice. The ability to discipline myself to stay the course comes down to the value of the goal and its place in my priority queue. It is much easier to sacrifice when the successful outcome of the sacrifice is a high priority for me.
The value of the UBBT process is that it will stay with me for the rest of my life, if I so choose. I am not sure how much value there is in temporary acts of discipline and self sacrifice. As long as I continue to approach everything I do mindfully, the positive aspects of my lifestyle continue to be priorities for me and become permanent changes as I continue to evolve.
“Without continual growth and progress, such words as improvement, achievement, and success have no meaning.” - Benjamin Franklin (1706 - 1790)
Sunday, 7 August 2011
Why I Journal
Mastery is a process in transformation. Once the transformation is complete, a different person emerges out of the journey. That person has a new way of thinking and the confidence that comes from accomplishment. Mastery is a process, not a destination. The path is different and unique for everyone. If one wishes to help others along their own path to mastery, or if one wishes to be able to repeat and improve the process, recording the journey is critical.
Journalling is the breadcrumbs one leaves behind so that their path to mastery is defined and thus repeatable. The greater the distance between the breadcrumbs the more difficult it is to derive the path one took. There is a reason why those who journal consistently find more value in journalling than those who do not.
“After the writer's death, reading his journal is like receiving a long letter.” - Jean Cocteau (1889 - 1963)
Sunday, 31 July 2011
Joe Lewis
I can’t imagine anyone ever more confident than Joe Lewis, even now with him well into his 60’s. I swear he defeated many opponents before he even threw his first technique because of the sheer intimidation that was such a huge part of his arsenal. His two biggest competitive techniques were the back fist and the side kick. Everyone knew they were coming but seemed helpless to do anything about it.
It really shook me up when I learned of Grand Master Lewis’ diagnosis of brain cancer a couple of weeks ago. I can’t imagine him losing any fight, let alone this one. It’s unfortunate that it sometimes takes a crisis like this to mindfully recognize the influence someone has had on you. Thank you Grand Master Joe Lewis. I may not have become a martial artist, most definitely not the martial artist I am today, if it were not for you.
"I have always believed that one of the last strongholds of maintaining a non-violent society lies with the martial arts industry. Do I have a concluding point? Violence in any form implies a loss of self-control. It is of great importance that martial arts’ instructors reinforce those behavior codes that are about acquiring an attitude of self-control." - Joe Lewis (b. 1944)
Sunday, 24 July 2011
Shop Class As Soulcraft
“People think responsibility is hard to bear. It’s not. I think that sometimes it is the absence of responsibility this harder to bear. You have a great feeling of impotence.” - Henry Kissinger (b. 1923)
Sunday, 17 July 2011
Interbeing
With mindfulness I tend to hear what people are saying rather than interpret what they are saying. I learn so much more when I don’t impose my paradigms upon the empirical data I accumulate.
With mindfulness my eye for detail is more refined. I see things for how they are without allowing my ego to distort the reality. Applying an egoless eye for detail to my training allows me to accept my present limitations and begin the process of eliminating them or adjusting my expectations.
With mindfulness the reflection in the mirror is an accurate and honest reflection of myself, not just physically but mentally and spiritually as well. This honest insight gives me the opportunity to embrace what I like about myself and the insight I need to eventually eliminate every skeleton from my closet. Stress disappears when I accept who I am rather than spend energy trying to hide it. If there is something I feel the need to hide, I bring it out into the light so that I am motivated to eliminate it.
With mindfulness I am totally aware of the consequences of my actions as well as my inactions. This awareness empowers me by reminding me of the capacity I possess to initiate change. The world around me is a product of my creation.
With mindfulness I am reminded of the miracle of life and the interconnectedness of everything. Awareness of interbeing makes me happy by giving my life consequence.
“You are me, and I am you. Isn’t it obvious that we “inter-are”? You cultivate the flower within yourself, so that I will be beautiful. I transform the garbage within myself, so that you will not have to suffer. I support you, you support me. I am in this world to offer you peace, you are in this world to bring me joy.” - Thich Nhat Hanh (b. 1926)
Sunday, 10 July 2011
Relevance
Everyone has different perspectives on the same issues so what is relevant for one person is not necessarily relevant for the next. At times it seems that the only common relevancy in everyone’s lives is money. Political and social issues become more relevant if money is a factor and less so if it is not a factor.
I guess the challenge of all activists is to help people realize that wealth does not equal happiness and inspire them to believe that the power to initiate change resides in every moment. What we choose to do matters as much as what we choose to ignore. Nothing is without consequence.
"The greatest wealth is to live content with little.” - Plato (428 BC - 348 BC)
Sunday, 3 July 2011
Perspective
I often have to remind my students that kung fu is there to serve them, not the other way around. When we’re not training and improving as we should, guilt tends to set in. With guilt comes a multitude of negative emotions that induce a negative mindset that shifts perspective so that where kung fu used to be an opportunity and tool for mastery, it becomes a responsibility with its own associated stress.
I begin and end everyday by reminding myself that I am who I am because of kung fu. Most of the defining moments of my life can be traced to that seminal first kung fu lesson almost thirty years ago. Any guilt I feel about the state of my training, or of my life in general, is only a reflection of my own ego. Kung fu will always serve me and any limits to its capacity to help me are set by my own efforts.
“Guilt is anger directed at ourselves.” - Peter McWilliams (1949 - 2000)
Sunday, 26 June 2011
Bootcamp 2011
I am reminded of the importance of heart in making a black belt. While sweat does not always generate the results one is hoping for, effort is never, ever wasted. If discipline of effort is consistent, improvement of skill is inevitable.
Those students who maximized the opportunity yesterday put before them, have my total respect. You guys are definitely different people today than you were yesterday. Pursuit of mastery does that for you.
“The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark.” - Michelangelo (1475 - 1564)
Sunday, 19 June 2011
Happy Father's Day
I have come to realize that many of the ideals on which I base my life have come from my dad. I’ve always appreciated how simply my dad lives his life and how he always has time and sweat to give to anyone, whether he knows them or not. My dad is not a big man but he has the heart of a giant.
“One father is more than a hundred schoolmasters.” - English Proverb
Sunday, 12 June 2011
Art vs. Science
The scientist approach values function over form. This approach comes with a thirst for more knowledge and with an eye always firmly planted on the next step or technique. While every student, artist or scientist, wants more knowledge, the scientist tends to focus on the knowledge but not necessarily the skill required to apply the knowledge. It’s not unlike my approach to magic. I have an intense curiosity that drives me to understand how a magic trick is pulled off but I have little interest in spending the time required to master the trick so I can perform it myself. Applied to the martial arts, the scientist tends to value realism over form and relies upon speed and strength as opposed to technique and timing.
The artist approach values form over function. This approach focuses more on the journey than the destination. To an artist, it isn’t just where your hand ultimately ends up, it is how the hand travelled to where it is. The artist will pay attention to how the body feels during motion and unlike the scientist who performs motion, the artist experiences it.
I often talk to my students about the value of a pure moment in kung fu. It is in those moments where our technique is perfect and all our effort becomes effortless. I have experienced a pure moment less than a half dozen times in my life but with everything I have accomplished and experienced in the martial arts, it is those rare pure moments that I value the most. Only an artist can understand.
“Take a look at your natural river. What are you? Stop playing games with yourself. Where's your river going? Are you riding with it? Or are you rowing against it? Don't you see that there is no effort if you're riding with your river?” - Frederick Friesekes (1874-1939)
Sunday, 5 June 2011
Bat Dung + Anything is Still Bat Dung
As difficult as it is to find sound nutrition in our everyday food choices, it can be even more difficult and confusing to find quality supplements. Since supplements are regulated as food, they are ironically subject to the same loose quality standards as the nutritionally poor food they are supposed to be supporting.
There are three things I look for in a quality supplement:
- The supplement must be manufactured to pharmaceutical grade. Quality supplement manufacturers produce their supplements to the same standards required of pharmaceutical drugs. This ensures that the nutritional information label accurately represents the contents. A supplement produced to this quality will also be guaranteed to have active ingredients that still retain their potency.
- The supplement must have an aqueous coating that dissolves easily. Some manufacturers use shellac to coat their supplements so that they can be swallowed easily. Unfortunately, shellac is not so easily broken down in our digestive tract and can result in the entire supplement passing right through our digestive system totally intact without delivering its payload of vitamins and minerals.
- A supplement produced by a company whose main focus is producing a quality supplement, not a pyramid based marketing empire that sells everything from household cleaning products to cosmetics. While this does not ensure the quality of the supplements one way or another, it does help me feel secure that the premium price I am paying (these things are expensive) is going towards improving the supplement products.
Dietary supplementation may be necessary but it does not replace the need to eat wisely. If you are eating bat dung for food and complementing it with quality nutritional supplements, you are still eating bat dung and that will have negative consequences.
“When diet is wrong medicine is of no use. When diet is correct medicine is of no need.” - Ayurvedic Proverb
Tuesday, 31 May 2011
This is a Test
This is a test. This is only a test. This is a test of the emergency blogging application known as Blogsy. Had this been a real blog, you would be reading something more profound and witty than this. Okay maybe not something more profound but definitely something more witty.
"A man with one watch knows what time it is; a man with two watches is never quite sure." - Lee Segall
Sunday, 29 May 2011
Meditation
Mindfulness meditation comes fairly easy for me but making time for my practice has always been a challenge. The new motorcycle enhances this form of meditation and every time I get on the bike, it gives me an opportunity to further develop my practice.
“How fast? You’re an idiot!” - Dad (b. 1931)
Sunday, 22 May 2011
What is a Black Belt?
Black belt is a term that instantly creates certain connotations within a person’s mind. Our own personal definition of a black belt is the biggest influence upon what type of black belt we are or will become. By the same token, the example of current and future black belts will have a massive influence on the popular definition of the term. Looking at it that way, as a black belt my responsibility to the future of kung fu is massive. Two thousand years of tradition is being redefined by today’s black belts. I definitely lose a lot of sleep when I consider the current state of today’s black belt standard.
I have spent the past day thinking about what qualities I value in a black belt. For me they all can be characterized by the quality of leadership. A black belt is someone who:
- thinks of the term “black belt” as an adjective, not a noun
- values innovation over imitation
- shuts up until he/she has put up
- lives simply and mindfully
- has passion in his/her craft
- earns respect, not demands it
- values reconciliation over retaliation and reflection over reaction
- skilled enough to be confident in his/her craft and humble enough to be aware of how much more there is to learn
- is a perpetual student who never stops learning
- is a control freak who takes responsibility for what they put into their body, who they allow to influence them, and how they choose to interpret things
- disdains mediocrity
- holds himself/herself 100% accountable for success or failure
- understands the quality of his/her words and actions have an impact upon the quality of the world
- believes in the power of example
For me the term black belt refers to a way of life that embraces mastery. It is not a tangible destination but rather a constant never ending journey.
“He that gives good advice, builds with one hand; he that gives good counsel and example, builds with both; but he that gives good admonition and bad example, builds with one hand and pulls down with the other.” - Francis Bacon (1561 - 1626)
Sunday, 15 May 2011
Goodbye My Friend
So I find myself faced with a decision. Get rid of my beloved Daytona or stop doing all the ^%$# pushups. Sold the Daytona yesterday. I hate you Tom Callos.
“Action expresses priorities.” - Mahatma Gandhi (1869 - 1948)
Sunday, 8 May 2011
Happy Mother's Day Mom
I do not always have what I want, but I have always had everything I have ever needed. I owe my parents everything.
“A mother is the truest friend we have, when trials heavy and sudden, fall upon us; when adversity takes the place of prosperity; when friends who rejoice with us in our sunshine desert us; when trouble thickens around us, still will she cling to us, and endeavor by her kind precepts and counsels to dissipate the clouds of darkness, and cause peace to return to our hearts.” - Washington Irving (1783 - 1859)
Sunday, 1 May 2011
Ignorance is Bliss
- Canada’s debt stands at $560 billion. After over a decade of budget surpluses, our latest deficit is $55.6 billion, the highest in Canadian History, despite having a government that continues to run on a platform of fiscal restraint.
- Our government has shut itself down twice in the past couple of years. Once to avoid a non confidence vote and the second time to avoid having to answer to the Afghan detainee controversy. Both times left us without representation for months.
- Despite the fact that the majority of Canadians voted for a party other than the current governing party, our current government manipulated people to believe that a coalition government would not represent the will of the people.
- Our current government is the first in Commonwealth history to be brought down with a non confidence vote because of being found in contempt of parliament.
Our federal election goes down in 24 hours. Our current scandal filled government is hoping to win its first majority through a campaign of fear. Fear of what will happen if another party gets elected but seemingly oblivious to what has already happened under their administration.
Our democratic process has been slowly dismantled over the past five years in the name of economic growth and security. We need to remind ourselves of the danger of letting something like that pass without protest. Even if you trust the guy in charge while this is happening, you need to consider the precedent he is setting and the fact that he won’t always be the guy in charge. A democratic system must be adhered to by every elected official, not bent to serve any agenda, whether it is good or bad. Personal rights and freedoms are easy to give up but next to impossible to earn back.
I have never been politically active and I would never belong to a political party. I do feel culpable though when it comes to the current state of the world. Activism is the key to social change and political activism is imperative for any type of lasting social progress.
“When a government starts trying to cancel dissent or avoid dissent is frankly when it’s rapidly losing its moral authority to govern.” - Stephen Harper (b.1959)
Sunday, 24 April 2011
Educational Responsibility
Something I have learned but am having difficulty accepting - people are willing to accept less freedom and liberty in the name of security. We also seem to be willing to accept less democracy in our government as long as our unsustainable lifestyle can be supported for just a while longer. We have forgotten that despite the ease in which we can give up these rights it is far more difficult to win them back. Not to mention that we currently have people dying in Afghanistan fighting for the very rights and freedoms we are giving up.
I have set a lot of personal goals for myself that are focused on accepting responsibility for the state of the world and the quality of not only my life, but the lives of those with whom I come in contact. I have always had a disdain for politics but I have come to recognize the importance of educating myself about what each political party actually stands for (not always what they imply they stand for) when it comes to actively making a difference. My vote does count and where I cast that vote carries huge responsibility.
I doubt if one political party is less self serving and corrupt than another. However, the statement I make with my vote does affect the direction my government will chose to take my country. Lack of involvement in the political process has a huge affect on government policy. In fact, a government can come to rely upon public apathy to allow them to further their own agendas over the needs of the country.
“The best argument against democracy is a five minute conversation with the average voter.” - Winston Churchill (1874 - 1965)
Sunday, 17 April 2011
Nurture or Nature
It is fascinating to learn that many of us are hardwired to base our decisions on fear as it does explain a lot of the inertia that resists any changes that may shift current paradigms. There is much less fear associated with maintaining the status quo as opposed to accepting new ideas or approaches that may facilitate change at a risk.
As long as maintaining our current lifestyle remains the highest priority of our society, we will continue to justify sacrificing the environment for the economy, we will be less tolerant of different cultures, we will advocate reaction over reflection and revenge over reconciliation.
Something that the British study could not ascertain - whether or not our decision making hardwiring was a result of nurture or nature. As a leader I choose nurture because no matter your political leanings, this is the crux of responsibility.
“The first step toward change is awareness. The second step is acceptance.” - Nathaniel Branden (b.1930)
Sunday, 3 April 2011
Massey Lectures
"I believe that oil production will peak in a few short years, and it will have very serious ramifications for society. ..... The fact that this threat is not being taking serious enough frightens me, and that is why I take this debate very seriously." - Robert Rapier
Sunday, 27 March 2011
Opportunity is Knocking
For the first time in Commonwealth history, we have a government that has fallen because it was found to be in contempt of parliament. What is going to be the real tragedy of this whole situation is that the present government is going to rely upon the public’s frustration and general apathy to possibly get themselves reelected as a majority government this time around - despite the fact that they have been embroiled in one corruption scandal after another. The present situation of the government is nothing new. It doesn’t seem to matter which political party is in power, their approach tends to be the same - take care of your own and support the party first, the country second.
This election is an opportunity. An opportunity to educate ourselves about the parliamentary system and about the issues that are truly affecting our country and our lives. If we make the most of this opportunity we can protect ourselves from self serving political manipulation and base our vote on facts, not manufactured fear.
“Always vote for principle, though you may vote alone, and you may cherish the sweetest reflection that your vote is never lost.” - John Quincy Adams (1767 - 1848)
Sunday, 20 March 2011
Inactions
I've been watching the world tiptoe around the quagmire that is Gadhafi's Libya while Japan is dealing with its worst disaster since the bombing of Nagasaki. All of this while Haiti is still in a crisis and multiple nations continue to struggle with unrest and corrupt dictatorships. Life continues on in my area of theworld unabated.
I remember as a kid, Gadhafi being a major thorn in the world's side but as long as the flow of oil continued, we continued to do business with him. I'm not a big proponent of war or military intervention, but should we not have stopped financially supporting his regime decades ago?
Haiti has been a mess forever yet it took that disastrous earthquake to get the world to do what it should have done a long time ago - step up and help out. Unfortunately for Haiti, it has been relegated to the back burner while the horror in Japan is brought to the front and centre.
It seems that as a group, we really don't like to be proactive in any social or political issue unless we are smacked across the face with it or there is some sort of angle that will benefit us.
If everyone could stop and consider the consequences of their inactions, the world would be a very different place. We all talk about how to best combat the bullying problems our youth face today and how speaking out and taking action rather than turning a blind eye is paramount in dealing with this issue. Can we not see the same holds true in political issues? Silence supports the status quo.
“I never worry about action, but only about inaction” - Winston Churchill (1888 - 1955)
Tuesday, 15 March 2011
This is a test.
I am testing a new blogging tool that may allow me to update multiple blogs with a single entry. This is my first test, wish me luck.
"The difference between school and life? In school, you're taught a lesson and then given a test. In life, you're given a test that teaches you a lesson.” - Tom Bodett (b. 1955)
Sunday, 13 March 2011
Activists Wanted
“There is something in every one of you that waits and listens for the sound of the genuine in yourself. It is the only true guide you will ever have. And if you cannot hear it, you will all of your life spend your days on the ends of strings that somebody else pulls.” - Howard Thurman (1900 -1981)
Sunday, 6 March 2011
Cha Cha Cha
“You don't have to be a "person of influence" to be influential. In fact, the most influential people in my life are probably not even aware of the things they've taught me.” - Scott Adams (b. 1957)
Sunday, 27 February 2011
Grounding
“One farmer says to me, "You cannot live on vegetable food solely, for it furnishes nothing to make the bones with;" and so he religiously devotes a part of his day to supplying himself with the raw material of bones; walking all the while he talks behind his oxen, which, with vegetable-made bones, jerk him and his lumbering plow along in spite of every obstacle.” - Henry David Thoreau (1817 - 1862)
Sunday, 20 February 2011
Protocol
“To effectively communicate, we must realize that we are all different in the way we perceive the world and use this understanding as a guide to our communication with others.” - Anthony Robbins (b. 1960)
Sunday, 13 February 2011
Opportunity
“The function of leadership is to provide more leaders, not more followers.” - Ralph Nader (b. 1934)
Sunday, 6 February 2011
Whew!
“A project is complete when it starts working for you, rather than you working for it.” - Scott Allen